Friday, May 3, 2013

Learning to be a 'warrior for love.'

This book, tiny beautiful things Advice on love and life from Dear Sugar, changed the way I think about life, love and everything in between. (I read it twice in the course of two weeks. It's that good.) I recommend it to everyone and anyone, and truly wish I could hand copies out to everyone I know.

Here are some excerpts I especially loved:
“Don't surrender all your joy for an idea you used to have about yourself that isn't true anymore.”  
“You don't have to get a job that makes others feel comfortable about what they perceive as your success. You don't have to explain what your plan to do with your life. You don't have to justify your education by demonstrating its financial rewards. You don't have to maintain an impeccable credit score. Anyone who expects you to do any of those things has no sense of history of economics or science or the arts.” 
“Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes you'll put up a good fight and lose. Sometimes you'll hold on really hard and realize there is no choice but to let go. Acceptance is a small, quiet room.” 
“You have to say I am forgiven again and again until it becomes the story you believe about yourself.”  
“Nobody will protect you from your suffering. You can't cry it away or eat it away or starve it away or walk it away or punch it away or even therapy it away. It's just there, and you have to survive it. You have to endure it. You have to live through it and love it and move on and be better for it and run as far as you can in the direction of your best and happiest dreams across the bridge that was built by your own desire to heal.” 
“You cannot convince people to love you. This is an absolute rule. No one will ever give you love because you want him or her to give it. Real love moves freely in both directions. Don’t waste your time on anything else.”  
“What’s important is that you make the leap. Jump high and hard with intention and heart. Pay no mind to the vision that the commission made up. It’s up to you to make your life. Take what you have and stack it up like a tower of teetering blocks. Build your dream around that.”   
“I can't say when you'll get love or how you'll find it or even promise you that you will. I can only say you are worthy of it and that it's never too much to ask for it and that it's not crazy to fear you'll never have it again, even though your fears are probably wrong. Love is our essential nutrient. Without it, life has little meaning. It's the best thing we have to give and the most valuable thing we receive. It's worthy of all the hullabaloo.”  
“You will learn a lot about yourself if you stretch in the direction of goodness, of bigness, of kindness, of forgiveness, of emotional bravery. Be a warrior for love.” 
 Read more quotes from the book here.

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  1. I MUST get my hands on this book! just reading these excerpts has moved me. thank you for sharing :)

  2. Love, love, love your blog! I'm not an awesome writer but your blog stirs a rollercoaster of emotions in me... You write just the way I would have loved to.


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